Introducing The Repair Library!

Practical Strategies For Giving And Receiving Relational Repair

I am so excited to share a brand new resource with you today! In recent months, I've been writing and talking a lot about repair. It's clear to me that we could all use more tangible strategies for repairing the inevitable emotional bumps and bruises that are part of a lasting relationship.

Repair is a big topic, and it's not one thing. It's a process between two people and includes many different communication strategies and actions.

Because it's a more nuanced and expansive topic than fits neatly in one post or essay, I've compiled a toolkit of important repair strategies (for giving and receiving repair) in one place for you. Welcome to The Repair Library!

The Repair Library is included in a paid Love Notes membership. Upgrade now and you'll get access to the download instantly!

What is it? The Repair Library is a toolkit of repair strategies. It comes in a clean, black and white PDF for easy printing should you choose.

What will I learn? We'll go through the basics of repair (what it is and what it isn't). Then I'll walk you through specific, concrete strategies for giving, requesting, and receiving repair. Each strategy includes example scripts for the exact language you might use (to be tailored to your context and personal style).

Why do I need this? Because repair is absolutely vital and also not that easy or simple! If repair is a sticky process in your relationship, this is the action-oriented toolkit you need to start showing up more effectively.