Sucky Relationship Stuff

Some Recent Lowlights From My Healthy, Normal Marriage

I've been going through some transformation as a human recently. And in this period of (frankly painful) growth, I've been more irritable than usual. I run a little hot on the best of days, so when I notice myself being extra toasty, I take notice quickly before I scorch my loved ones.

Writing A Book About Love Is Vulnerable AF

Writing The First Draft Of My Book Cracked Me Open When I dreamed of writing a book for high conflict couples—a book that synthesizes the mindset and strategies I teach every day in my practice—I figured it would feel about the same as being a therapist. Or maybe,

Love Notes for Real LifeMarina Rosenthal

Between me feeling raw and mid-process and life just life-ing, my marriage lately has been characterized by more turbulance than usual lately.

In my book, none of this is a Problem. It's part of the deal in a long-term relationship. And in service of normalizing the natural, healthy process of lasting love, I'm going to share a few of the recent sucky things we've been navigating.