9 Tips For A Vibrant Sex Life In Your Long-Term Relationship

How To Keep It Spicy For Decades To Come

Much of my writing focuses on intense or messy relationships (and honestly, all long-term relationships can get a bit messy!). But I'm also an AASECT certified sex therapist, and I love thinking and writing about sexuality. Unfortunately, social media tends to punish writers for posting about sex and encourages all kinds of nonsense like spelling it as: "s-x" or "seggs." Blech.

Yet another reason I'm so glad to be here, writing directly to you, where there is no algorithm to piss off!

I'll get right into it—today I'm offering nine strategies, tips, and mindset boosts for a fun, satisfying sex life in your long-term relationship. Relationship sex is a different ball game than a fling or new love affair, whether you've been with the same person for 5, 10, 20, 30, or more years! But sex truly doesn't have to feel stale even when you've been together forever.

Let's get into it—nine tips for better sex coming atcha right now.